I was incredibly lucky to receive an advanced copy of this book。 I'm a fan of the work John and Vanessa do so it is wonderful to have their relationship thoughts in one book。 I love their vulnerability and how they break down their suggestions to build a strong relationship。 They don't pull any punches and give you the honest， hard facts based on their experiences as therapists and humans。 Each chapter ends with self-reflection questions and ways to implement their suggestions。Highly recommend t I was incredibly lucky to receive an advanced copy of this book。 I'm a fan of the work John and Vanessa do so it is wonderful to have their relationship thoughts in one book。 I love their vulnerability and how they break down their suggestions to build a strong relationship。 They don't pull any punches and give you the honest， hard facts based on their experiences as therapists and humans。 Each chapter ends with self-reflection questions and ways to implement their suggestions。Highly recommend this for people who want to look honestly at themselves and their relationships。 Even if you're not in a relationship， it's worth reading。 。。。more